April 4, 2010

It was a beautiful sunny day as we drove to the hotel to meet Maryann I wondered how the day was going to unfold. It was after all our first Coptic Wedding Ceremony, and being an Orthodox church I was worried about restrictions at the church. More on that later but first let me tell you about Maryann and her bridesmaids.
She looked stunning in her lovely dress and everyone was in a very festive mood when I got up to the hotel room. Her mother looked very proud and happy as she helped Maryann to get ready. I couldn't help but think what a beautiful moment it was, one that Maryann would remember every time she views her wedding video.
John seemed quiet on the onset but when I greeted him he gave a broad smile. A gentle soul I thought. I was struck by how calm and self confident he was. Together they looked perfect and I wanted to make sure we captured the day in a unique way. The Coptic Church is based on the teachings of Saint Mark who is credited with bringing Christianity to Egypt. The Coptic Orthodox wedding ceremony is long with several chantings and full of symbolism.
When we got to the church my worries about our coverage dissipated. The priests were very accommodating and restrictions were not strenuous at all. We were able to freely move around during the ceremony. This was essential for us because of the way we like to film weddings. It is easy for a videographer so set a camera down on a tripod for the entire service. That is certainly not the Graymask way as we like to capture the story and not just film an event. The Coptic wedding was certainly a new experience and now I have all kinds of ideas about how to film the next Orthodox wedding.
Maryann and John' rings were blessed and they exchanged and placed on their right hands. At the close of the ceremony two crowns were placed on their heads and a gospel was read. The Coptic Orthodox service is unique in one way in that there are no "vows". We enjoyed the experience and the amazing wedding of Maryann and John. Enjoy the highlight of their beautiful Egyptian wedding set in the city of Houston at the St. Mary and Archangel Michael Coptic Orthodox Church.
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March 9, 2009
As brides of the 21st century we have the freedom of
putting together our own wedding ceremonies. Amidst your wedding planning you may come across many
wedding blessings, prayers, vows, readings, scripture, and songs to choose from. If you are
looking into adding a few beautiful pieces into your wedding ceremony consider the following
ceremony. I look at it as a prayer that is meant to bless the bride and the groom. It is widely
known as the ‘The Hands Ceremony’. This ceremony never fails to bring tears to a bride and her
loved ones’.
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[Bride's Name Here], please face
[Groom's
Name Here], and hold his hands, palms up, so you may see the gift
that they are to you.
These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and vibrant
with love, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as he promises to
love you all the days of his life.
These are the hands that will work along side yours, as together you
build your future, as you laugh and cry, as you share your innermost
secrets and dreams.
These are the hands you will place with expectant joy against your
stomach, until he too, feels his child stir within you.
These are the hands that look so large and strong, yet will be so gentle
as he holds your baby for the first time.
These are the hands that will work long hours for you and your new
family
These are that hands that will passionately love you and cherish you
through the years, for a lifetime of happiness.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your
eyes: tears of sorrow and tears of joy
These are the hands that will comfort you in illness, and hold you when
fear or grief wrack your mind.
These are the hands that will tenderly lift your chin and brush your
cheek as they raise your face to look into his eyes: eyes that are
filled completely with his overwhelming love and desire for you.
[Groom's Name Here], please hold [Bride's Name
Here]’s
hands, palms up, where you may see the gift that they are to you. These
are the hands of your best friend, smooth, young and carefree, that are
holding yours on your wedding day, as she pledges her love and
commitment to you all the days of her life.
These are the hands that will hold each child in tender love, soothing
them through illness and hurt, supporting and encouraging them along the
way, and knowing when it is time to let go
These are the hands that will massage tension from you neck and back in
the evenings after you’ve both had a long hard day.
These are the hands that will hold you tight as you struggle through
difficult times.
These are the hands that will comfort you when you are sick, or console
you when you are grieving.
They are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you
through the years, for a lifetime of happiness.
These are the hands that will hold you in joy and excitement and hope,
each time she tells you that you are to have another child, that
together you have created a new life.
These are the hands that will give you support as she encourages you to
chase down your dreams. Together as a team, everything you wish for can
be realized.
Minister:
God, bless these hands that you see before you this day. May they always
be held by one another. Give them the strength to hold on during the
storms of stress and the dark of disillusionment. Keep them tender and
gentle as they nurture each other in their wondrous love. Help these
hands to continue building a relationship founded in your grace, rich in
caring, and devoted in reaching for your perfection. May [Groom's Name
Here] and [Bride's Name Here] see their four hands as healer, protector,
shelter and guide. We ask this in your name, Amen.
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[Bride's Name Here], please face
[Groom's
Name Here], and take each other’s hands, so that you may see the
gift that they are to you.
These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of
love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day as you promise
to love each other today, tomorrow and forever.
These are the hands that will work along side yours as together you
build your future.
These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you
through the years, and with the slightest touch will comfort you like no
other.
These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief temporarily
comes your way.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your
eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will tenderly hold your children.
These are the hands that will give you support and encouragement to
chase down your dreams.
These are the hands that will hold you tight as you struggle through
difficult times.
These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.
These are the hands that will lift your chin and brush your cheek as
they raise your face to look into eyes that are filled with overwhelming
love for you.
And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will
still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken
tenderness with just a touch. |
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Aren't these words just beautiful!
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